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The Addict Who Still Suffers

 Brothers and Sisters in Recovery 🙏 Yesterday was sobering — no pun intended. I learned that my very good friend’s stepbrother passed away from an overdose. It hit hard. Real hard. Because every one of us knows the truth deep down… this disease does not play fair. Addiction does not care about age, family, intelligence, kindness, or potential. It steals sons, daughters, mothers, fathers, and friends. It leaves empty chairs at dinner tables and broken hearts that never fully heal. And the hardest part? Most of us know that person could have been us. Some of us have overdosed and somehow made it back. Some of us woke up in hospital beds. Some of us were brought back with Narcan. Some of us buried friends we laughed with just weeks before. We’ve watched addiction turn beautiful souls into statistics. That reality should shake every recovering addict to the core. But here’s what I also know: recovery gives us a responsibility. We are not just staying clean for ourselves anymore. We ar...

Journaling in Recovery

 Brothers and Sisters in Recovery 🙏


I think I’m going to change it up a little today and talk about something simple, but powerful—journaling.


On this path of recovery, a lot of us live with overactive minds. Sometimes we overthink everything. Other times, we don’t think things through enough. Either way, when our thoughts start running wild, one of the best things we can do is write it down.


And I don’t mean it has to be some fancy leather-bound journal either. It can be in a notebook, on a napkin, on the back of a receipt, or even in a morning message like this. The point isn’t where you write—it’s that you get it out of your head and onto paper.


Writing in recovery is fundamental because it forces us to slow down and process what we’re feeling instead of reacting on impulse. It helps us use critical thinking instead of emotional chaos. When we write, we can see our thoughts more clearly. We can separate fear from facts, emotion from reality, and confusion from truth. Sometimes what feels overwhelming in our head suddenly looks manageable once it’s written out in front of us.


In a lot of ways, journaling is like picking up the phone and calling someone in your recovery network—except in that moment, you’re talking to yourself honestly. You’re giving yourself a chance to hear what’s really going on inside. And sometimes, when we’re not able to reach another addict right away, writing can help hold the line until we can.


Some of the best breakthroughs in recovery don’t come in big dramatic moments—they come in quiet ones. A pen. A piece of paper. A racing mind. And somewhere in the middle of that storm, clarity shows up. Sometimes the best ideas, the best realizations, and the best solutions come from a good old-fashioned brainstorm.


So if your mind is spinning today, don’t let it stay trapped up there. Write it out. Pray it out. Think it through. Sometimes the answer is already in you—you just need to give it a place to land.


With love and gratitude,

Gary G


Just for today. Easy does it. One day at a time. Keep me

coming back—it works if you work it.

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